The Mindfulness Trainings 

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Five Mindfulness Trainings
The First Training: Aware of the suffering caused by the destruction of life, I vow to cultivate compassion and learn ways to protect the lives of people, animals, plants and minerals. I am determined not to kill, not to let others kill, and not to condone any act of killing in the world, in my thinking and in my way of life.
The Second Training:
Aware of the suffering caused by exploitation, social injustice, stealing and
oppression, I vow to cultivate loving kindness and learn ways to work for the
well-being of people, animals, plants and minerals. I vow to practice generosity
by sharing my time, energy, and material resources with those in real need. I am
determined not to steal and not to possess anything that should belong to
others. I will respect the property of others, but I will prevent others from
profiting from human suffering or the suffering of other species on earth.
The Third Training: Aware of the suffering caused by sexual
misconduct, I vow to cultivate responsibility and learn ways to protect the
safety and integrity of individuals, couples, families and society. I am
determined not to engage in sexual relations without love and a long-term
commitment. To preserve the happiness of myself and others, I am determined to
respect my commitments and the commitments of others. I will do everything in my
power to protect children from sexual abuse and to prevent couples and families
from being broken by sexual misconduct.
The Fourth Training: Aware of the suffering caused by unmindful speech and the inability to listen to others, I vow to cultivate loving speech and deep listening in order to bring joy and happiness to others and relieve others of suffering. Knowing that words can create happiness or suffering, I vow to learn to speak truthfully, with words that inspire self-confidence, joy and hope. I am determined not to spread news that I do not know to be certain and not to criticize or condemn things of which I am not sure. I will refrain from uttering words that can cause division or discord; or words that can cause the family or the community to break. I will make all efforts to reconcile and resolve all conflicts, however small.
The Fifth Training: Aware of the suffering caused by unmindful consumption, I vow to cultivate good health, both physical and mental, for myself, my family, and my society by practicing mindful eating, drinking and consuming. I vow to ingest only items that preserve peace, well being, and joy in my body, in my consciousness, and in the collective body and consciousness of my family and society. I am determined not to use alcohol or any other intoxicant or to ingest foods or other items that contain toxins, such as certain TV programs, magazines, books, films and conversations. I am aware that to damage my body and my consciousness with these poisons is to betray my ancestors, my parents, my society and future generations. I will work to transform violence, fear, anger and confusion in myself and in society by practicing a diet for myself and for society. I understand that a proper diet is crucial for self transformation and the transformation of society.
The Fourteen
Mindfulness Trainings
1. The First Mindfulness Training:
Openness
Aware of the suffering created by fanaticism and intolerance, we are determined
not to be idolatrous about or bound to any doctrine, theory, or ideology, even
Buddhist ones. Buddhist teachings are guiding means to help us learn to look
deeply and to develop our understanding and compassion. They are not doctrines
to fight, kill, or die for.
2. The Second Mindfulness Training:
Nonattachment from Views
Aware of the suffering created by attachment to views and wrong perceptions, we
are determined to avoid being narrow-minded and bound to present views. We shall
learn and practice nonattachment from views in order to be open to others'
insights and experiences. We are aware that the knowledge we presently possess
is not changeless, absolute truth. Truth is found in life, and we will observe
life within and around us in every moment, ready to learn throughout our lives.
3. The Third Mindfulness Training:
Freedom of Thought
Aware of the suffering brought about when we impose our views on others, we are
committed not to force others, even our children, by any means whatsoever - such
as authority, threat, money, propaganda, or indoctrination - to adopt our views.
We will respect the right of others to be different and to choose what to
believe and how to decide. We will, however, help others renounce fanaticism and
narrowness through practicing deeply and engaging in compassionate dialogue.
4. The Fourth Mindfulness Training:
Awareness of Suffering
Aware that looking deeply at the nature of suffering can help us develop
compassion and find ways out of suffering, we are determined not to avoid or
close our eyes before suffering. We are committed to finding ways, including
personal contact, images, and sounds, to be with those who suffer, so we can
understand their situation deeply and help them transform their suffering into
compassion, peace, and joy.
5. The Fifth Mindfulness Training:
Simple, Healthy Living
Aware that true happiness is rooted in peace, solidity, freedom, and compassion,
and not in wealth or fame, we are determined not to take as the aim of our life
fame, profit, wealth, or sensual pleasure, nor to accumulate wealth while
millions are hungry and dying. We are committed to living simply and sharing our
time, energy, and material resources with those in need. We will practice
mindful consuming, not using alcohol, drugs, or any other products that bring
toxins into our own and the collective body and consciousness.
6. The Sixth Mindfulness Training:
Dealing with Anger
Aware that anger blocks communication and creates suffering, we are determined
to take care of the energy of anger when it arises and to recognize and
transform the seeds of anger that lie deep in our consciousness. When anger
comes up, we are determined not to do or say anything, but to practice mindful
breathing or mindful walking and acknowledge, embrace, and look deeply into our
anger. We will learn to look with the eyes of compassion at ourselves and at
those we think are the cause of our anger.
7. The Seventh Mindfulness Training:
Dwelling Happily in the Present Moment
Aware that life is available only in the present moment and that it is possible
to live happily in the here and now, we are committed to training ourselves to
live deeply each moment of daily life. We will try not to lose ourselves in
dispersion or be carried away by regrets about the past, worries about the
future, or craving, anger, or jealousy in the present. We will practice mindful
breathing to come back to what is happening in the present moment. We are
determined to learn the art of mindful living by touching the wondrous,
refreshing, and healing elements that are inside and around us, and by
nourishing seeds of joy, peace, love, and understanding in ourselves, thus
facilitating the work of transformation and healing in our consciousness.
8. The Eighth Mindfulness Training:
Community and Communication
Aware that lack of communication always brings separation and suffering, we are
committed to training ourselves in the practice of compassionate listening and
loving speech. We will learn to listen deeply without judging or reacting and
refrain from uttering words that can create discord or cause the community to
break. We will make every effort to keep communications open and to reconcile
and resolve all conflicts, however small.
9. The Ninth Mindfulness Training:
Truthful and Loving Speech
Aware that words can create suffering or happiness, we are committed to learning
to speak truthfully and constructively, using only words that inspire hope and
confidence. We are determined not to say untruthful things for the sake of
personal interest or to impress people, nor to utter words that might cause
division or hatred. We will not spread news that we do not know to be certain
nor criticize or condemn things of which we are not sure. We will do our best to
speak out about situations of injustice, even when doing so may threaten our
safety.
10. The Tenth Mindfulness Training:
Protecting the Sangha
Aware that the essence and aim of a Sangha is the practice of understanding and
compassion, we are determined not to use the Buddhist community for personal
gain or profit or transform our community into a political instrument. A
spiritual community should, however, take a clear stand against oppression and
injustice and should strive to change the situation without engaging in partisan
conflicts.
11. The Eleventh Mindfulness Training:
Right Livelihood
Aware that great violence and injustice have been done to our environment and
society, we are committed not to live with a vocation that is harmful to humans
and nature. We will do our best to select a livelihood that helps realize our
ideal of understanding and compassion. Aware of global economic, political and
social realities, we will behave responsibly as consumers and as citizens, not
supporting companies that deprive others of their chance to live.
12. The Twelfth Mindfulness Training:
Reverence for Life
Aware that much suffering is caused by war and conflict, we are determined to
cultivate nonviolence, understanding, and compassion in our daily lives, to
promote peace education, mindful mediation, and reconciliation within families,
communities, nations, and in the world. We are determined not to kill and not to
let others kill. We will diligently practice deep looking with our Sangha to
discover better ways to protect life and prevent war.
13. The Thirteenth Mindfulness
Training: Generosity
Aware of the suffering caused by exploitation, social injustice, stealing, and
oppression, we are committed to cultivating loving kindness and learning ways to
work for the well-being of people, animals, plants, and minerals. We will
practice generosity by sharing our time, energy, and material resources with
those who are in need. We are determined not to steal and not to possess
anything that should belong to others. We will respect the property of others,
but will try to prevent others from profiting from human suffering or the
suffering of other beings.
14. The Fourteenth Mindfulness
Training: Right Conduct
(For lay members): Aware that sexual relations motivated by craving cannot
dissipate the feeling of loneliness but will create more suffering, frustration,
and isolation, we are determined not to engage in sexual relations without
mutual understanding, love, and a long-term commitment. In sexual relations, we
must be aware of future suffering that may be caused. We know that to preserve
the happiness of ourselves and others, we must respect the rights and
commitments of ourselves and others. We will do everything in our power to
protect children from sexual abuse and to protect couples and families from
being broken by sexual misconduct. We will treat our bodies with respect and
preserve our vital energies (sexual, breath, spirit) for the realization of our
bodhisattva ideal. We will be fully aware of the responsibility of bringing new
lives into the world, and will meditate on the world into which we are bringing
new beings.
(For monastic members): Aware that the
aspiration of a monk or a nun can only be realized when he or she wholly leaves
behind the bonds of worldly love, we are committed to practicing chastity and to
helping others protect themselves. We are aware that loneliness and suffering
cannot be alleviated by the coming together of two bodies in a sexual
relationship, but by the practice of true understanding and compassion. We know
that a sexual relationship will destroy our life as a monk or a nun, will
prevent us from realizing our ideal of serving living beings, and will harm
others. We are determined not to suppress or mistreat our body or to look upon
our body as only an instrument, but to learn to handle our body with respect. We
are determined to preserve vital energies (sexual, breath, spirit) for the
realization of our bodhisattva ideal.